The research topic is determined by the importance of the family in modern society as the main institution of personality socialization. The family provides a person with a diverse knowledge of the surrounding reality, transmits moral, aesthetic, spiritual values and traditions, on the other hand, an analysis of modern society and the modern family shows that parents do not always know, can and are able to create acceptable conditions for comfortable socialization of the child, which leads to various social problems. To study the peculiarities of the influence of the nature of family relationships on the formation of personal qualities of a child. Theoretical (analysis, synthesis, generalization of scientific literature), empirical (observation, questionnaires, psychodiagnostic techniques, interviews), mathematical and statistical processing of the data obtained. The article describes the peculiarities of the influence of family relationships on the personal development of a child in Kazakhstan and is an important topic covering not only scientific research, but also practical guidance for parents and teachers. From ancient times to the present day, researchers, doctors, philosophers and educators have addressed the issues of upbringing and family as the main institution for the formation of a child's personality.